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Guidelines for Swinging

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What You Need to Know Before Swinging with Your Partner

Swinging can be an exciting and fulfilling experience for couples, but it’s important to be well-informed and prepared. Here are the most important rules every swinger couple should know and follow to ensure a positive experience while swapping partners:

  1. Communication is Key: Open, honest communication with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and expectations is essential.
  2. Set Clear Boundaries: Establish what is and isn’t acceptable for both of you and stick to these limits.
  3. Consent is Crucial: Ensure that all parties involved give enthusiastic consent at all times.
  4. Practice Safe Sex: Use protection to prevent STIs and maintain health.
  5. Respect All Participants: Treat everyone with respect and courtesy, and ensure mutual comfort.
  6. Have a Signal: Develop a discreet signal with your partner to communicate during the experience if something needs to stop or change.
  7. Be Prepared for Emotions: Understand that swinging can bring up unexpected emotions and be ready to address them.
  8. Do Your Research: Learn about the lifestyle, attend events, and talk to experienced swingers to get a better understanding.
  9. Enjoy the Experience: Relax, have fun, and make sure the experience is enjoyable for both you and your partner.

Swinging, like any other human activity, has its pros and cons. By following these basic principles, you can ensure that swinging remains fun and free from misunderstandings.

RULES

ETIQUETTE

FAQ

Wicked Fun Club Rules

Rules

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  • Age Requirement: Must be 21+ to enter and drink.
  • Identification: Valid photo ID required for new and renewing members.
  • Wicked Fun Club Members Site is an adult lifestyle (swingers) club in Central Connecticut where on-premise play is allowed. 
  • Single ladies are highly respected in the Wicked Fun Club Community. Stalking or harassment of single ladies is never permitted and, if excessive, can result in temporary or permanent suspension of a couple’s membership. 
  • Wicked Fun Club does not release a guest’s private information to other guests; nor does Wicked Fun Club sell guest information. To contact a Wicked Fun Club guest, you will need to ask the guest directly at a Wicked Fun Club.
  • Couples should arrive and depart the event together.
  • Absolutely NO Smoking and NO Vaping inside the Club and/or Building.
  • No means no, so if someone tells you no, we ask you to respect this decision. 
  • Whether you are a man or a woman, please ask for the consent of others before touching.
  • Please respect the Wicked Fun Club Members Site venue at all times by keeping it clean and picking up after yourself. If you have an accident, please clean it up, and/or notify staff to help you.
  • All guests should respect the dignity of others. No rude conduct toward guests or staff will be permitted.
  • If you enter a play area, and are not playing, we kindly ask that you whisper or do not talk at all.
  • Please do not invade the personal space of others while they are playing. If there is a doubt, please ask them if they would like your company.
  • Please keep your voice down outside and respect the neighborhood.
  • Wicked Fun Club has a no-tolerance policy for drugs or prostitution.
  • No cameras, cell phone cameras or recording devices are permitted for use.
  • Overly intoxicated guests will be asked to leave the party area or will be denied entrance.
  • Promoting competing events or services (paid or free) at Wicked Fun Club or on the Wicked Fun Club network may result in membership suspension. In particular, any parties advertised on the same weekend as a Wicked Fun Club will result in immediate account review. 

Wicked Fun Club Etiquette

Etiquette

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  • Consent: “No means no.” Guests can stop an encounter at any time if they feel uncomfortable.
  • Rejection: Do not take rejection personally; it happens to everyone.
  • Jealousy: Address jealousy openly with your partner. Modify activities to maintain a happy relationship.
  • Arrive and Leave Together: Always arrive and leave with your steady partner to reinforce their importance in your life.
  • Judgment: Use common sense and good judgment in swinging situations.
  • Communication: Honor any pre-set rules with your partner and communicate openly.
  • Respect: Respect the guidelines set by your partner and others.

Wicked Fun Club FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

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Your comfort is our top priority when you visit our club. Here are some frequently asked questions about swinging to help you feel at ease.

What type of people are swingers?

The Lifestyle attracts a diverse group of individuals. Swingers come from various backgrounds, encompassing all shapes, sizes, and ages. Typically, most couples are in their late twenties to late forties. Common traits among swingers include a sense of adventure, a love for new experiences and meeting new friends, honesty, open-mindedness, respect for others, and a strong, secure, and loving relationship with their partner. Generally, swingers are fun-loving people who embrace life to the fullest.

There are two approaches to discussing swinging with your partner. The first is a straightforward conversation. If your partner is open about their sexual desires, talking it out and exploring the idea together might lead to a decision that enhances your overall happiness. If your partner finds it challenging to express their thoughts, a more indirect approach could work better. Try introducing the concept through verbal fantasies during intimate moments, or by watching adult films and reading magazines that feature multiple partners. You could also become platonic friends with swingers to ease into the lifestyle. Contacting local swingers clubs can provide information about parties and lounges where interested couples meet. Visiting these venues for dinner and drinks might spark your partner’s interest without any immediate sexual involvement.

While you can’t be 100% certain about someone’s health status, swingers generally take precautions to avoid STDs, just like anyone else. Many couples establish their own rules, such as always using condoms, avoiding certain sexual acts with others, or abstaining at specific times. It’s important to take steps to protect yourself, based on your comfort level. For more information on STDs, you can check with your state or county health department or find abundant resources online.

Established swingers clubs are known for their professionalism and discretion, essential qualities for their sustained existence. Other alternatives include swinger publications, websites, conventions, special events, travel agencies, and resorts catering to the sexually adventurous. Maintaining privacy while corresponding with other swingers can be achieved through email, which is increasingly popular, and websites with personal ads that act as intermediaries until you’re ready to share your email address. This allows you to remain anonymous at your leisure. Swinging activities can occur at various third-party locations such as swingers clubs, hotels, resorts, and private homes.

First of all, the phrase “the lifestyle” is a euphemism, much like “passed away” or “powder my nose,” that people use instead of being direct. “The lifestyle” refers to swinging – where couples engage in sexual activities with other couples’ partners. It also includes singles (ladies or men) who join couples to participate in these sexual activities.

You don’t have to “justify” it – you explore the idea to see if it suits you. If it does, no justification is needed – it’s simply something you enjoy. If it doesn’t, no justification is needed because you won’t pursue it.

On the contrary, couples who enjoy swinging are often very secure and stable in their primary relationships. They typically have better-than-average communication, openly discussing anything, including their sexual fantasies. Swinging is a way for them to enhance their relationship, make sex more exciting, and add variety without cheating on their partner.

Approaching the idea of swinging with your spouse depends on the stability of your relationship. If you’re accustomed to sharing fantasies, you can start by expressing your desire to see your partner pleasured by someone else. A little sexy talk can lead to real conversations, eventually exploring the swinging scene. If you haven’t discussed sexual needs and fantasies yet, introduce this kind of talk gradually into your sex play. Start with mild suggestions rather than bluntly saying, “I’d love to see you with someone else!” Look for clues that your partner might entertain fantasies involving others, like getting turned on by group sex scenes in movies or becoming more passionate after meeting another couple. Comment on these clues positively. When directly asking about swinging, frame it as a way to enhance your shared sex life, ensuring your partner knows it’s about mutual pleasure and not dissatisfaction.

You can’t (and don’t want to) force your partner into anything – swinging is about mutual respect and pleasure, and it’s essential that your partner wants to participate too. Don’t try to force it. If they are hesitant, take it slow. You can express your fantasies, just as you encourage your partner to do. Occasionally mention how much it would turn you on to see your partner with someone else, to be intimate together in front of others, to join in on friends having sex, or to be naked in a hot tub with another couple. Don’t completely drop the idea unless you get a firm “No, never, not on your life.” The key is to gently suggest these ideas without any pressure.

Couples usually meet either by attending social events sponsored by lifestyle clubs or by contacting each other directly through personal ads placed on lifestyle websites. Isn’t that dangerous? If you make your first meeting in a public place, such as a bar or club, there is no more danger than going on a date. You are under no obligation to leave with them or talk to them again. If the ad was fake, no one will show up – it’s annoying, not dangerous. However, you should avoid private meetings initially. Public meetings ensure everything is above board and give you an opportunity to decide if you want to get to know the person or couple better.

It’s nerve-wracking to think about meeting a new couple because the ultimate goal might be to have sex with them. But let’s back up a moment – the goal of the first meeting is NOT to have sex. It’s simply to determine whether you and your spouse are attracted to them. So, there’s no pressure to do anything other than visit and get to know each other a little. Whatever you do, DON’T stand someone up. Everyone gets butterflies, but it’s really rude to make plans and then fail to show. If you need to cancel, let them know in advance.

After your first meeting, the next steps are entirely up to you. You can start building a friendship and consider the idea of sex later, or you can be upfront about your interest in “getting together” (a euphemism for having sex) and make plans accordingly. What about club events? Many states have privately-owned clubs specifically for swinging couples to meet. The club experience is quite similar across the country, with most clubs hosting dances that couples can attend.

No, you are never obligated to swing with someone if you attend a group event. If a group or club requires you to have sex with someone at an event, run in the other direction. Participation is always voluntary. Groups and clubs like Wicked Fun provide opportunities to meet like-minded swinger couples in a sexy atmosphere conducive to the activities you’re interested in. What happens at club events? It varies based on the event and attendees. At a dance, expect loud music, “dirty dancing,” suggestive conversation, and possibly blatant sexual activity. There will likely be a lot of flirting and people getting turned on, with some potentially outrageous behavior.

Yes, select single men are allowed at Wicked Fun Club, but entry is not guaranteed. To maintain the best experience for all members, single men must go through a strict vetting process before being approved for membership.

Membership Requirements for Single Men:
  • A completed application, including the Website/Screen Name section. Any application missing this information will be automatically denied until corrected.
  • At least three recent validations or certifications from past playmates confirming your authenticity, good behavior, and positive engagement within the lifestyle.
  • We only accept validations from SwingLifestyle.com or SDC.com. Any applications with references from FetLife.com will be automatically denied.
  • A valid phone number for verification purposes. We may contact you directly as part of the screening process.
  • Respect for club etiquette. This means understanding boundaries, practicing enthusiastic consent, and knowing how to read the room.

If you’re serious about joining, take the time to complete the vetting process properly. Messaging us directly will not fast-track your approval.

Want to be considered? Submit your membership application and start the process today!

Yes, but there are specific guidelines in place to maintain the club’s balance and atmosphere.

  • The male half of a couple must attend at least two events with their female partner before being eligible to attend any event that allows single men. This ensures that you understand the club’s vibe, etiquette, and expectations.
  • Couples & Single Lady-only events are strictly off-limits. These nights are designed exclusively for couples and unattached women—no exceptions.
  • If you attend an event that allows single men, you will be considered a solo attendee for the night and will be required to pay the single male entry fee.

We encourage couples to explore the club together first, ensuring a comfortable and exciting experience before attending solo. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out!

No, single males cannot attend Couples & Single Ladies Only events, even if accompanied by a female guest. To attend, you must have a Couples profile on our website, as these events are exclusively for established couples and single women.

We appreciate your understanding as we maintain the intended atmosphere and balance of these events.

No, single males and single females must purchase separate tickets unless they have a verified Couples profile on our website. Having separate accounts means you are considered two individual attendees, not an established couple.

This policy is in place to ensure fairness and prevent single members from bypassing event fees by temporarily pairing up. Since a shared ticket primarily benefits the Single Male, we do not allow this arrangement. The answer will always be no.