We’ve heard from quite a few of you that you’d love to see more single men at Wicked Fun events—and we’d love to make that happen. We’re always looking for ways to welcome quality members into our community, but we also know that keeping the vibe respectful, safe, and sexy means having the right people in the room.

That said, we’ve realized our current requirements might be a little tough for some single guys trying to join. So to help build our single male base the right way, we’re now allowing single men to join if they’re sponsored by a current member—specifically a couple or single lady. If you’ve played with someone you trust, someone who understands boundaries and respects the lifestyle, they may be a great fit.

We’re still sticking with our existing rule: they need at least 3 lifestyle verifications on SLS or SDC. If they don’t have them, it’s a no-go for now. If they do, they’ll go through our usual vetting—and if they pass, they’re in.

We know a lot of you love nights that include well-vetted, respectful single men, so if you have someone in mind, this is your chance to help shape that experience. Let’s build it together, one sexy connection at a time.

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